Founder of Shame School and author of You Are Not Your Mother: Releasing Generational Trauma & Shame and Difficult Mothers, Adult Daughters: A Guide for Separation, Liberation & Inspiration
the four tasks of Psyche (moving past mother-daughter trauma)
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Kate Farrell and I are collaborating once again to share myth and magic. :-) The Four Tasks of Psyche: Take the Heroine’s Journey and Move Past Mother-Daughter Trauma Join us for an enlightening conversation discussing the archetypes in the Greek Myth of “Psyche and Eros” and the empowering practices in You Are Not Your Mother. This is sure to be a lively, interactive exchange! Kate will retell the story of the formidable labors of Psyche and I will be sharing the related modern-day practices. Tuesday, September 16th from 4 - 5:30 p.m. Pacific / 7 - 8:30 p.m. Eastern Online via Zoom Cost: $35 Much, much love, Karen |
Karen C.L. Anderson
Founder of Shame School and author of You Are Not Your Mother: Releasing Generational Trauma & Shame and Difficult Mothers, Adult Daughters: A Guide for Separation, Liberation & Inspiration
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